Share your personal experiences on your blog occasionally. It makes your posts more real and helps your readers connect with you.
Content is the king - In the blogging world so diverse and big, you need to establish yourself with a distinction. the only road to it is good, original and valuable content. Be creative, different and surprise your readers once in a while.
People come to your blog out of choice and not any compulsion. If you remember this, the rest is not important enough.