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How to raise a grateful child #AtoZChallenge #Parenting | Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles

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How To Raise A Grateful Child #AtoZChallenge #Parenting | Vidya Sury, Collecting Smiles
We live in challenging times—more so when it comes to parenting. Of courses we want the best for our children and in the process, end up overindulging them and this can have long term consequences—and not of the good kind. It’s a fact that childhood overindulgence leads to a sense of psychological entitlement. When parents overnurture children by doing things that their children ought to be doing for themselves, being too lenient, having no rules—in short, giving them too much, children assume they are entitled to everything they want. They get away with no chores, too much freedom and wrap the family around their little finger. In fact, when these children grow up, their relationships suffer. They are more aggressive towards those who criticize them. In romantic relationships, they are less loyal and have a problem seeing things from their partner’s perspective. What is the solution? Raising grateful children. The attitude of gratitude can be taught. Gratitude is learned gradually over the years. Usually children below 6 years of age say thanks only when prompted. The habit develops as they grow older and becomes spontaneous between the ages of 7 and 10. Gratitude is transformative. It takes the focus away …
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