Board exams are around the corner, and if you have a child appearing for them (like my daughter, who is preparing for her 10th boards), you know the stress levels are at an all-time high. Sleepless nights, last-minute revisions, and the constant fear of What if I don’t do well?—it’s a challenging time for students. But as parents, we can do a lot to help ease their anxiety and make this journey smoother for them. Here’s how I think we can support our children in managing stress during board exams and help them perform their best. 1. Recognizing the Signs of Exam Stress Before we tackle stress, let’s identify its symptoms. Some common signs include: If you notice any of these, it’s time to step in with a calming approach. 2. Create a Stress-Free Study Environment A cluttered space leads to a cluttered mind. Ensure your child has a dedicated, well-lit, and organized study area. A peaceful environment enhances focus and reduces distractions. Encourage short breaks between study sessions—stepping outside for fresh air or a quick walk can do wonders. Sitting for hours on end is counterproductive! A refreshed mind retains information better. 3. Teach Effective Study Techniques Instead of cramming, guide them towards smart study methods like: Encourage them to study actively—writing down important points and explaining concepts aloud can boost retention. 4. Encourage a Healthy Lifestyle A well-rested, well-nourished brain performs significantly better than one running on junk food and minimal sleep. 5. Be Their Support System, Not Another Pressure Source Sometimes, without realizing, we end up adding to their stress by saying things like “You have to top the class” or “Your entire future depends on this”. Instead, try: A simple “I’m proud of you no matter what” can work magic on their confidence. 6. Teach Stress-Relief Techniques Equip your child with tools to manage stress effectively: If they feel overwhelmed, remind them to step back, take a deep breath, and reset. 7. Set Realistic Expectations Not every child is meant to score 99%. Marks do not define intelligence or success. Remind them that learning and growing matter more than grades. Help them set achievable goals and celebrate small victories along the way. 8. Acknowledge Their Hard Work A small reward system can boost motivation—be it their favorite meal, a movie break, or even words of appreciation. Positive reinforcement works wonders. 9. Encourage Social Interaction & Breaks Studying 24/7 is a recipe for burnout. Let them have short, guilt-free breaks—playing with a pet, chatting with a friend, or listening to music can recharge them. 10. Keep Perspective & Stay Calm as a Parent Our anxiety as parents often transfers to our children. Stay composed and remind yourself: It’s just an exam. Encourage them to give their best but don’t let fear of results overshadow their efforts. Final Thoughts: The Bigger Picture Board exams are a milestone, but they are not the ultimate measure of success. Support, encourage, and most importantly, let your child know that they are more than their marks. To all students appearing for their board exams—breathe, believe in yourself, and give it your best shot! And to us parents, let’s be their pillars of strength rather than pressure. Good luck to all the students out there, including my own daughter! You’ve got this! 😊 P.S. If this blog helped you, share it with other parents who might need it! 😊 And if you have other tips, do please share!