You’ve read  “Eat, Pray, Love”, watched Slumdog Millionaire on repeat, have a passion for adventure and a penchant for spicy food.  The guidebooks have you thoroughly debriefed on the creme-de-la-creme of Indian tourism, and going-it-alone is a challenge you relish, not rebuff. India has called you, and you’re ready to answer. But are you really …