If you are wrong and you shut up, you are wise. If you are right and you shut up, you are married”. “Marriage is an institution of three rings. Engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering.” Such messages popped numerous questions in my mind viz., Will marriage curb my expressions? Will wife enforce her will upon me? Rituals say marriage is a sacred bonding, whereas messages say it’s a suffering, which one is true? Solution to my questions could be answered by none but marriage itself. After a date with destiny, it was time to unravel the mystery. Initial days were filled with bliss with utmost respect to each other. More like a genie granting unlimited wishes. It was a phase when I felt that my wife is flawless, not just beauty but in everything she does. As time passed certain aspects which I felt negative/restrictive cropped up. One such thing was that my wife liked a clean house. This aspect troubled me a lot as I was lazy and hence not keen on keeping the house clean. Once, after an ugly fight, I decided to ask my wife the rationale behind being such a freak. Wife humbly said that a c